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Why is it so easy for a dude who treats your friend like shit, who she labels as a heartless dog, a “nigga, that don’t deserve shit and won't amount to shit,” to turn 180 degrees in your direction and be the sweetest man imaginable?

I’ve noticed that men, some men, do more for their lady’s friends than their own lady. 

Why?

Why do more for the next chick, when the one you have is fucking you and keeping your bank account out of the negative?

Is it because they want to fuck the friend more?  Or do they act in an attempt to create a rise of jealousy in their lady?

Or worse, men, some men, fuck a chick and dog her out, yet proceed to play cool and drop covert sexual messages to her homegirl.

Why?

Maybe it goes back to the principle of men wanting their cake, pie, cupcakes, and a glass of milk to wash it down with on the side.  One, two, shit five is never enough.  And if they don’t cheat and fuck numerous women, they still do their current chick wrong by availing themselves to other women.

Its as though having their main squeeze is all great, but why not also do for her friends or others and mentally have them too as your own.  

It’s all a mind game.  By helping me move into my apartment or buying me lunch while your lady can’t even get a free double cheese burger out of you, you have not only fucked her over but have fucked me over into believing that you’re a decent guy who just wants to help.

I see it all the time, experienced it with the ex, and I’m still baffled.

Why?